This week I read for 90 minutes Thursday, May 31st.
I read the next three chapters in The Five Love Languages. Quality time was the title of the first chapter I read this week. This chapter explained to couples that if your partner values quality time then your job is to make sure that you spend romantic alone time with your mate. This makes the person feel loved by you; your undivded attention is most fulfilling to their needs.
The next chapter, receiving gifts, discussed with couples that your mate gauges your love and appreciation best when you shower them with gifts. This is not the same as getting valentines, Christmas and anniversary gifts for your mate; thwy feel it is most effective when gifts are given unexpectantly. Buying your wife flowers just because it is Tuesday for instance.
The last chapter I read was Acts of Service. The author explained that this type of affection as when couples do nice things for each other to give the other a break. For example, a wife could give her husband a sensual massage and foot rub when he gets home from working a longer work shift. A husband could do the cooking or laundry for his wife so she could watch lifetime uninterrupted one Saturday afternoon. This person feels love through their partner going out of their way to make them comfortable.
I got some good tips this week for helping me define the three featured languages this week. I am eager to wrap it up and get all the secrets next week.
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