This week I read over 90 minutes (possibly 100 minutes) Wednesday, June 7, 2012.
This week I finished the Five Love Languages chapter 8, physical touch through chapter 14, a personal words. Chapter 8 physical touch was expressing how some lovers feel loved the most when their mate gives them physical touch. This is not to be confused with strictly sex; they also cherish massages, soft touches, hand holding, kisses and hugs. This type of lover needs an abundance of touchy feely attention to feel that their partner is into them, and they also use touch to show they care and are attracted to their mate.
The next chapters showed each individual how to define and recognize their own particular love language as well as their partners and even introduced ways to distinguish which love language your c hldren may be dominant in. The book finished out by explaining how love is a personal choice that every human decides to engage in. Healthy relationships requires each partner take the time to know their partner's love language and find ways to cater to those particu lar needs as often as possible. It is the little things that count in showing others what they mean to us.
This book was very useful in showing me that different people value different terms of endearment to feel loved and appreciated in their relationship. To be successful, couples must makke themselves aware of what it takes to please their partner and ensure that they practice this on a frequent basis. Children also have things that make them feel a connection to their parents. If we are paying attention to our loved ones it is never hard to tell what gets them going. The best way is to start with yourself and express to others the way you like being loved and start the conversation about their own language. Just this knowledge can make an even stronger connection between couples.
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